This two-day workshop aims to be a brave space for discussing topics related to exploring boundaries with embodied consent and negotiations. Participants have the opportunity to learn and exchange ideas through various activities, such as group discussions and role-playing scenarios.
This two-part workshop which spans two Saturdays will facilitate discussion around the following topics:
-the essentials of consent and factors that influence a lack of clarity
-building rejection tolerance and strengthening the ability to say no
-how to proceed when the brain and the body give mixed signals,
-connecting with one’s own sense of pleasure and desire through embodied consent,
-exploring and communicating our boundaries, and working through negotiations.
A portion of the workshop will allow for platonic (non-sexual) touch. Group limits state that clothes will remain on and there will be no request for genital or explicitly sexual touch. No one is required to participate in anything they do not feel comfortable with and we have alternative (verbal) exercises prepared. During the workshop, if feelings of arousal arise, we ask that you do not follow them.
CONTENT WARNING: Due to the nature of the topic, links to sexual assault or rape may be brought up in discussion. While most consent failures don’t end in sexual assault, every sexual assault is a consent violation. It is advised to consider a community care plan for before, during, and after. Some thoughts to consider: What makes you feel good? What might help you reduce tension during the workshop? Having snacks or a tasty drink in your bag? Taking care of your hunger or thirst beforehand? Hanging out with friends after? Having space to decompress after?
While each day consists of about 90 minutes of workshopping time, the space that remains after is designed to help us as a group digest and integrate what is experienced and build a sense of community. Many found that the food/chats after was integral to the workshop experience so I encourage you to stay if you are able and willing.
The schedule for both days is as follows:
Day 1 (Saturday, August 12)
14:30 – 14:45 Arrival
14:45 – 15:45 Part 1
15:45 – 16:00 Break
16:00 – 17:00 Part 2
17:00 – 17:15 Break
17:15 – 19:00 Food / Chats (We have the entire “forest” area of Ostara reserved for us)
Day 2 (Saturday, August 19)
14:30 – 14:45 Arrival
14:45 – 15:45 Part 3
15:45 – 16:00 Break
16:00 – 17:00 Part 4
17:00 – 17:15 Break
17:15 – 19:00 Food / Chats (We have the entire “forest” area of Ostara reserved for us)Small snacks and drinks will be available during.
After purchasing your ticket you will receive a pdf attachment closer to the date of the workshop. Please allow yourself some time to read this before the workshop. The document will also be made available at the workshop for those that do not have time before. The aim is to orient everyone and redirect the valuable time we have offered each other towards group activities and discussion.
These workshops are open for all adults. The venue has gender neutral toilets. Unfortunately due to the steps at the front door the venue is not universally accessible and we apologize for this lack of access. Please send us a message if you have any questions or comments.
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